Driving in the fast lane |
1. My kids old enough to drive?
2. I'm not old enough to have children drivers.
3. I'm not ready for this.
Did I mention I'm not old enough to have children drivers? My son 14 is counting down the days for when he's eligible to get his permit. Once that happens it won't belong for my daughter because they are only 10 months apart. I'm not ready for this!!
In addition to being ready for this my children have said things recently when driving around that honestly scares me and makes me wonder if they are really ready for this. For example while returning from home from the grocery store, my daughter exclaims "There's a corn field there? When did that get there? Has it always been there?" Or getting out of the car from the store parking lot "As those houses always been there?" My son is also asking similar questions. Ummm --- hello we have lived in this area for practically your whole life. These things have always been here -- well some of of them are new, but I promise you the cornfield has always been there and I promise you those house have been there for as long as you can remember -- meaning they were built when you were babies -- but that was nearly 15 years ago -- so yeah they have pretty much been there.
Then I pointed out how those storage sheds across from the corn field are new, they are being built now, only to be met with "There is a construction site there too?" Oh good gravy --- what am I going to do? This is an area you are familiar with, we drive these roads often -- what's going to happen when it's NOT a familiar road, path, surrounding? I am sincerely worried. Why haven't my children been more aware of their surroundings until now.
There is a construction site in front of the Wal-Mart here now. Nothing has happened yet just a fence around some grass with a sign that states it's a construction site and you need permit to enter within the fence area. Giving my children's lack of awareness I made a point to make them aware of the the construction site. "Look, kids that is a construction site. That means something will be built there" Last thing I need is to go to Wal-Mart one day with them only to hear them say "When did that get here?"
I also have a fourteen year old son who is also very eager to get his permit and then license. I think he will probably make a pretty decent driver but I am still not sure I am ready for that. I also have a daughter who just turned 16 but she hasn't felt the need to pursue a driver's license yet. I am kind of thankful as we have found her to be a rather absent minded biker (crashes aren't terribly uncommon) and so I don't know if we want her controlling a car just yet.
ReplyDeleteI totally understand. Thanks for stopping by and for leaving a comment. I hope you come back again.
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